Playing with confidence...but when you lose it

I havent been able to find a solution here. I'm hoping that someone has gone through this and can give some advice.

The summer was incredible, I had 3 MTT wins, and was on fire. Practically unbeatable in a single table SitNGo and doing well in cash ring games.

My confidence was at an all time high....

I was able to make some incredible reads post flop (very important when you play 40% of hands)_ I was playing into my image (maniac) very well.

Then it snapped... primarily when I moved to online ring games. I did well initially but fell off a cliff near the 20K hand mark.
No longer was I playing my game, I became weak tight.

I am looking for hands that beat me, skeletons around every corner, playing defensive rather then offensive. I am looking to avoid losing chips rather then gaioning chips.

Now I have to rebuild, anyone have some ideas how to straighten this ship?

Comments

  • I've gone through phases like this myself, folding middle pairs to loose-aggressive reraises, etc.

    I was still profitable playing the nuts just because in LLHE you'll always get a caller.

    It's all psychology. You've made money and established a reputation (and ego). You don't want to fail.

    You've got to embrace the chaos. Variance happens. :)

    I use the same strategy when my pocket aces get cracked by J7 suited rivering a flush.

    <mutter>serenity now</mutter>
  • What about 4 pocket pairs in a row and decimating everyone at the table? Have trouble keeping it together then Morty?
  • What about 4 pocket pairs in a row and decimating everyone at the table? Have trouble keeping it together then Morty?

    It's not my fault you walked into aces... :)
  • I have 3 suggestions:
    1/ re-open the Garnet Lounge. Invite me to a tourney. Kick my butt. Boom! Confidence restored.
    2/ stop raising with 42s
    3/ drop down to lower stakes. use pokertracker (dammit) to see where you're making mistakes. once you are confident you are playing well, move back up.
  • pkrfce9 wrote:
    I have 3 suggestions:
    1/ re-open the Garnet Lounge. Invite me to a tourney. Kick my butt. Boom! Confidence restored.
    2/ stop raising with 42s

    Garnet Lounge has been relocated, Im sure youll get invited soon.

    I have stopped raising with 42s, hence the problem. I dont have alot of confidence to play cards like this right now. Which is a huge part of my game plan.
    pkrfce9 wrote:
    3/ drop down to lower stakes. use pokertracker (dammit) to see where you're making mistakes. once you are confident you are playing well, move back up.

    Sound advice. Wolff said the same thing...

    The transition was from $10 SnG, to $20, $30, $40 and $50
    To 1/2NL to 2/4 to 3/6NL


    I am back to the $10 sitngoes....
    and will build from there
  • As I commented tonight on my monthly "poker show" on www.CKOM.com (I will alert the forum about the next time): "You longest, most ardous, kick you in the groing and stomp on you when you are down, tear your guts out and throw them on the green felt LOSING streak is STILL in your future. Of course, so is your best winning streak."

    Focus on this hand, this evening, or this week as the start of a winning streak. Easy to say, hard to do.
  • If you play a solid game (which i think you do) just stick to it, pokertracker is good, and you will be fine.
  • I usually just try to take some time off because i find i can't play my best game if yesterdays loss still bothers me. I get my wife to change the passwords on all my poker accounts( I have no self control) and try to remember there are other things in life then kings getting run down by 73o. Sometimes I can go back within a week or so, although this last time i was away for 6 months (but that was a very bad losing streak)
  • Ty:

    The one thing you have to be cognizant of is that online people can easily label your playing style by attaching notes and colours to profile. This makes it much easier to remember the guy who was playing loose – even a few weeks down the road. When you play a lot you find a lot of ppl have you labeled. Naturally, they will use this against you.

    Best thing to do is keep your game changing. And also change your actual game. Move tables in Ring Games after you have used your “loose” style to gain some chips. Get out before someone has the opportunity to lay their trap.

    Also, if you recognize other players at your SNG tables, try playing tight for the first few blind levels. If they have you labeled as a loose table and your play turns mega tight you will be a very difficult person to read in the later rounds once the blinds increase.

    I played against you in my first every KW tourney at Bristol. I had just came off 6 months of only limit poker. You were quite the shock to my system. But after getting comfortable with your style I knew to avoid you when I felt I would get out played post-flop. But then I run into you again a few months down the road and your playing tight. That made it very hard to read any play you made. When you make your opponents confused as to which “hat” you are wearing that night, or that hand you have a huge advantage.

    Just my two cents.
  • TNORTH wrote:
    When you make your opponents confused as to which “hat” you are wearing that night,

    I personally like the white visor.. goes well with his MP3 player.

    Mark
  • DrTyore wrote:
    I personally like the white visor.. goes well with his MP3 player.
    Yes - his nice MANLY mp3 player.  What's on yours :) (inside joke)
  • beanie42 wrote:
    DrTyore wrote:
    I personally like the white visor.. goes well with his MP3 player.
    Yes - his nice MANLY mp3 player.  What's on yours :) (inside joke)

    Buddy... it's gotten worse.. I showed Catherine how to use it... sigh...

    Mark
  • DrTyore wrote:
    beanie42 wrote:
    DrTyore wrote:
    I personally like the white visor.. goes well with his MP3 player.
    Yes - his nice MANLY mp3 player.  What's on yours :) (inside joke)

    Buddy... it's gotten worse.. I showed Catherine how to use it... sigh...

    Mark


    aww come on admit it...

    The complete works of John Mayer goes acoustic was on your MP3 way before Catherine...
  • TNORTH wrote:
    Ty:

    The one thing you have to be cognizant of is that online people can easily label your playing style by attaching notes and colours to profile.  This makes it much easier to remember the guy who was playing loose – even a few weeks down the road. When you play a lot you find a lot of ppl have you labeled. Naturally, they will use this against you.

    Best thing to do is keep your game changing. And also change your actual game. Move tables in Ring Games after you have used your “loose” style to gain some chips.  Get out before someone has the opportunity to lay their trap.

    Also, if you recognize other players at your SNG tables, try playing tight for the first few blind levels. If they have you labeled as a loose table and your play turns mega tight you will be a very difficult person to read in the later rounds once the blinds increase.

    I played against you in my first every KW tourney at Bristol. I had just came off 6 months of only limit poker. You were quite the shock to my system. But after getting comfortable with your style I knew to avoid you when I felt I would get out played post-flop. But then I run into you again a few months down the road and your playing tight. That made it very hard to read any play you made. When you make your opponents confused as to which “hat” you are wearing that night, or that hand you have a huge advantage.

    Just my two cents.


    Thanks for the compliment, Bristols are funny... you have to play differently depending on the table assignments.

    Considering my maniacal image, it typically pays to be very tight at Bristol.

    All your comments made sense as well, I was having great success in SnG's and have gone back that way.
  • Redington wrote:
    DrTyore wrote:
    beanie42 wrote:
    DrTyore wrote:
    I personally like the white visor.. goes well with his MP3 player.
    Yes - his nice MANLY mp3 player.  What's on yours :) (inside joke)

    Buddy... it's gotten worse.. I showed Catherine how to use it... sigh...

    Mark


    aww come on admit it...

    The complete works of John Mayer goes acoustic was on your MP3 way before Catherine...

    Who's John Mayer?

    Mark
  • oh the denial mark... the denial
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