I have officialy entered "The Twilight Zone" In a good way

For the past few days my wife has been hanging around the computer while Ive been playing poker. About 2 days ago I gave her a chance to play on the micro tables at stars and she sat and played for about 2 hours. She won like $3 playing .5/.10 limit. Here I was at work today slaving away trying to earn a living when I get this phone call:" Hi Honey, I was playing poker today and I won you some money" I was like "wtf" So I thought she was messing around on the micro tables again. Turns out she played .50/1 and won $15 and was having a time of her gambling life. So I offered to setup and fund an account for her on Stars so she can start playing and she said that it was a good idea. I'm totaly freaked out now, for 3 years I've played poker she never once even watched me play let alone wanted to play herself.
My only question is what to do now? I dont want to ruin the experience for her so she'll lose interest but yet I want her to be able to hold her on and have some fun. I dont know how to proceed with teaching her to play. Any ideas?

Red

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  • well, you know your wife better then anyone, depending on her personality, you could go a number of ways...

    if shes the competitive type that likes to be the best possible at everything...maybe get her a book or suggest a website

    if this is just a fad for her which will quickly burn out...just let her have her fun at 50c/$1
  • FOR GOD'S SAKE, RED, WHAT HAVE YOU DONE??????

    Seriously, just let her have her fun on the site. If she starts losing, tell her to lower her limits, or go to the play tables abit. Give her a book or two to study up on. Let her experiences find it's own level of enjoyment for herself. Hey, even watch her play instead of playing yourself. See how she does, give pointers here and there, but don't critize her play. Let her have fun with it.

    If I were you though, I would be telling her that the initial investment you made is a one time deal. Any further need to reload is HER responsibility. Just a bit of insurance for ya!!!
  • id say that you probably shouldnt jump on her with books and websites and tips right away. slip here a suggestion that youre willing to teach and shell come asking when shes interested

    on the other hand, she might be an undercover agent from the government...with a really really good mask

    (btw jumping on her at any other time is probably okay :D:D:D)
  • My wife and I play online poker together. We have a lap top one will play a SnG or low limit game while the other watches and then we switch. While playing we are continuously discussing the hands with each other and try to improve our game together by asking why we played the way we did, what do we think others have and so on.

    I find it is a good way to spend time with my wife while doing something I enjoy.
  • My wife and I play in the same SnG's (2 computers), and it's a lot of fun.  I "offered" my unsolicited advice when she first started playing, and she soon got very ticked at me - "I'll play my way".  After improving a bit through time/practice, she started asking me about some improvements, and we chat about various hands we both have.  I'd say learn from my example and don't teach until asked :)  Once she's ready, she'll ask and then it will be far more useful and enjoyable.

    The danger is when she gets to the point where she notices some of the holes in your game, or calls you on your dumb plays :)  "The circle is now complete. When I left you I was but the learner. Now I am the master. What would you like for dinner?" (paraphrased ;) )
  • Having your wife playing poker is a great thing. But let her do it on her own. You know what most women are like unless they ask for your opinion they pretty much don't want it.
    also this is a great oportunity for you guys to do things together. Have a poker night with friends and family. My girlfriend and I will go out to dinner one night a week at one of the Red Hot Poker locations and play in a free tournament together.
    Just enjoy the fact that she has picked up another simular intrest.
  • Enjoy the ride. It is great having a significant other interested in poker. It allows you to spend more time together doing something you both enjoy. Just beware that she may/will become a better player then you quick fast as I am not consistently on the sideline rooting for her to pull out a victory.
  • Coming from me, your personal friend - after all our talks on the subject Society all I got to say is - "wow wtg"!
  • 88Fingers wrote:
    Coming from me, your personal friend - after all our talks on the subject Society all I got to say is - "wow wtg"!
    hehe :P
  • I might setup an account for my lady.  She sat and played some 2/5 with me at Rama today instead of heading directly for the slots.  (There's so much money just sitting there waiting to be scooped up in these games and I'm just breaking even at limit in the casinos - NL much better.)

    She's past the jittery stage but needs much practice.  I think this is a good exercise for her _if_ she has the interest.
  • I say, just let her play. Shes having fun with it, and its more off a side hobby for now. If she gets really into it and competitive, she'll surely come to you for help. And when that time comes, i'm sure you'll have tonnes of information to unload on her. You don't want to be one of those people that will force tonnes of knowledge on her (its like girsl not interested in sports, and ppl cramming like rules blah blah, plays blah blah). So just ride with it.
  • dude, just be happy shes been brainwashed by pokerstars.net commercials instead of desperate housewive episodes
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