After being warned, is this still questionable ethically?

I'm curious to find out what everyone thinks about this...

Cash game, I'm on the left of this player who had a good size stack in front of him, and was quite vocal about his play. Came to know he was a very loose player who liked to think he was better than he was. Anyway, almost from the very first hand he would either fold or take the pot by pushing his cards towards the center, given me a full view of his hole cards. Didn't matter if he was going to muck or not, I got a good view alot of the time. The very first time this happened, the dealer warned him about showing his hand and after asking me if I saw the cards, turned them over for all to see. This player would start a mini rant on how it wasn't his fault that I saw his cards, but seriously, he was absolutely careless as far as protecting his hand.

One hand in particular, can't remember position, I'm in the pot preflop with him and another guy. Flop comes down rags and as he checks it, he again leans his hand into the middle of the table giving me a brief look. I checked behind him saying 'you have to stop showing me your hand and start protecting', and he insta mucks. I didn't even get a good look at it, just know it was suited black mid range cards. Dealer asked me what the cards WERE, and I said I didn't get a good look, but that I saw them as mid range black. Again, the player goes on a rant calling it an angle shot, forcing him to muck. The hand eventually continued, getting one bettor, and I folded.

It was not my intention to angle shoot, and I'm not sure if it even could be considered as such. The guy was positively careless all night.

After being warned earlier by the dealer, should it be my responsibility to inform the dealer every time I caught a glimpse of his cards or not? After my comment on the hand I described, could it have been construed as an angle shot?

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  • STR82ACE wrote: »
    I'm curious to find out what everyone thinks about this...

    Cash game, I'm on the left of this player who had a good size stack in front of him, and was quite vocal about his play. Came to know he was a very loose player who liked to think he was better than he was. Anyway, almost from the very first hand he would either fold or take the pot by pushing his cards towards the center, given me a full view of his hole cards. Didn't matter if he was going to muck or not, I got a good view alot of the time. The very first time this happened, the dealer warned him about showing his hand and after asking me if I saw the cards, turned them over for all to see. This player would start a mini rant on how it wasn't his fault that I saw his cards, but seriously, he was absolutely careless as far as protecting his hand.

    One hand in particular, can't remember position, I'm in the pot preflop with him and another guy. Flop comes down rags and as he checks it, he again leans his hand into the middle of the table giving me a brief look. I checked behind him saying 'you have to stop showing me your hand and start protecting', and he insta mucks. I didn't even get a good look at it, just know it was suited black mid range cards. Dealer asked me what the cards WERE, and I said I didn't get a good look, but that I saw them as mid range black. Again, the player goes on a rant calling it an angle shot, forcing him to muck. The hand eventually continued, getting one bettor, and I folded.

    It was not my intention to angle shoot, and I'm not sure if it even could be considered as such. The guy was positively careless all night.

    After being warned earlier by the dealer, should it be my responsibility to inform the dealer every time I caught a glimpse of his cards or not? After my comment on the hand I described, could it have been construed as an angle shot?

    (I was there)
    If I remember correctly his first rant was not that it wasn't his fault, but that you did NOT see his cards and you were full of shit.

    C'mon AJ, the poker gods have given you another edge and you don't know what the right thing to do is? :) Take it!

    If I was you I would have just kept quite after he BLEW up at you the first time, and silently kept a record of his hands for future reference.
    The hand he pushed me out of with his pair of Jacks, he clearly exposed his hand to you (I still do not know if he intended to) and I was thankful for the free info you were able to give me.

    In a friendly game I would keep telling him (while passing him another beer) and not look at his cards, but in this game (and most other real games) I would look. Mainly because he was being a big dick, calling you a liar liar pants of fire. If he was cool about it I would maybe give 3 warnings and then just take my free info.

    The best was when he folded his Flush draw after a $63 bet into a $400+ pot on the turn and he rivered the winning flush. HEE HAW, HEE HAW!

    Fun night!
  • For me this has always been one of those grey areas as to where your responsibility to not be looking at his hand is vs. the responsibility he has to protect his hand.

    I've seen threads like this often on 2+2 and essentially people fall into 1 of 3 camps. 1) Look everytime the information is presented and don't say nothin to no-one..
    2) Give the player warnings (number of warnings vary) and then take the free info
    3) Do your utmost best not to look, warning the player each time you see his cards.

    Do I feel one of these is any better than the other, I honestly don't know. There's really no clear right or wrong answer for this one sir!
  • Its gambling if someone wants to give you free information take it. As far as I am concerned your money is your money and you should be protecting it. If you don't have enough sense to protect your cards then you shouldnt be playing.
  • Tell him once, see if it changes

    Tell him again if it doesn't...

    after that fuck him

    As for the dealer.. well, what are you supposed to do?

    Mark
  • Its gambling if someone wants to give you free information take it. As far as I am concerned your money is your money and you should be protecting it. If you don't have enough sense to protect your cards then you shouldnt be playing.

    exactly; players see cards all the time, on the deal, etc., and do nothing about it. You warned him and theres not much you can do.
  • ya, fck him once, he'll start to protect his card
  • the guy is an asshole plain and simple. you are right that he thinks he is a lot better than he is and he loves to tell everyone about how bad they are playing and what mistakes they have made. blah blah blah. he, himself, has had a number of 'ethical breaches' at the table but just doesn't see the light when he is called on it.

    if he wasn't such an extreme losing player, i'm quite certain he would be told to leave the game for all the shit he causes. on the contrary, the game is built around this player. nuff said.

    personally, i think it is unethical to have clear knowledge (i.e. seeing someone's cards) not known by the whole table and using it to influence your decision IF you don't disclose that you know it. so just disclose it and don't worry about it. it is not YOUR problem. it is HIS.

    did you know what his hand was when you stacked him?

    once you have said "i have seen your cards" i'd say you are in the clear. i would say it every time he does it. i would never say what cards i saw, especially if by refusing to do that would put him on tilt. if you are still in the hand with others and him, i guess it is up to them if they want to continue in the hand as i would expect you have a bit of an advantage over the rest of the table. if he is out of the hand, his cards should be exposed.
  • i dont post often but i found this thread interesting. I agree that he should be warned once and only once. I also agree that after that and in order to put him on tilt, feel free to tell him you know his cards, but do not disclose them. If he wants to play in this manner i would use it to my advantage. I'm not sure why a dealer would ask during hand play what the cards were. Unless i misinterpreted that portion of the post. The one thing i do think that was wrong was disclosing your information to the rest of the table. It would be the j,j hand i am talking about that was mentioned above. I think if your lucky enough to be sitting in a good position on a player like this, you should'nt be sharing that information with the table. I have played with AJ b4 and only know him as a gentleman and good player, so he really must have been an a hole and most likely deserved whatever you guys fed him. So does this guy play cash often??? and where??? :)

    Mike
  • pkrfce9 wrote: »
    did you know what his hand was when you stacked him?

    I stacked him a couple of times, and neither time, did I see his hand whatsoever. After being told a couple of times, when he saw me in the pot, he would cover his cards better...not great, but better. But the first time I tripled up on him and the other guy who came late, I knew they were both drawing to flushes...I called with my baby set and managed to hit the 'dory' on the river. The last time I stacked him and he stomped out I had the nuts and he overbet the pot into me with his allin and I just smiled to myself and quietly said a thank you to the poker gods.
  • I'm not sure why a dealer would ask during hand play what the cards were.

    The dealer did this ONLY the first time when it was VERY obvious I had seen the hand, and ONLY did it after the hand was completed. I had information on this opponent that other's at the table did not have, and I had agreed to it.
  • ty for the clarification. I didnt think it was during the hand but had to ask, i was wondering if it was a see one see all kind of rule. Pssstttt, where was the game?

    :)
  • Pssstttt, where was the game?

    :)

    Does a fisherman tell another the best spots to troll? ;)
  • lol, no, but can ya blame me for asking??? lol
  • ty for the clarification. I didnt think it was during the hand but had to ask, i was wondering if it was a see one see all kind of rule. Pssstttt, where was the game?

    :)
    i thought it was during the hand, after the asshole mucked his cards since AJ knew what they were but the others in the hand did not? that seems to be fair, doesn't it?

    but it could also have been after the hand was concluded. i was too busy laughing at the idiot's explosion to remember that well.

    he kept saying 'unbelievable!' (i had just watched the princess bride and kept thinking of the guy saying 'inconceivable!' all the time and couldn't stop laughing)
  • pkrfce9 wrote: »
    i thought it was during the hand, after the asshole mucked his cards since AJ knew what they were but the others in the hand did not? that seems to be fair, doesn't it?

    but it could also have been after the hand was concluded. i was too busy laughing at the idiot's explosion to remember that well.

    he kept saying 'unbelievable!' (i had just watched the princess bride and kept thinking of the guy saying 'inconceivable!' all the time and couldn't stop laughing)

    No I'm positive the hand was over. Not that it mattered, but since I did see, QUITE CLEARLY, I thought it only fair for the rest of the table to see the crap he was playing all day.

    "unbelievable"...and and callin me a liar all day certainly didn't earn him my respect when I called his allins. I doubt he learned anything though from the day...I mean...he's sooooooooo good at the game
  • yes that would have been fair enough it the idiot had mucked his cards already. That choice would have been up to AJ and personally if he was representing a big hand unless he ran into a monster telling everyone the hand ( if it was the j,j hand) could have only helped his image. This sounds like a charity casino game???? ( yes i'm still fishing, I'm relentless) lol

    just read the above and know it wasnt the j,j hand, since garbage all day was mentioned.
  • No the J,J hand was when I had flopped mid pair and a J was the high card on the flop. I bet out and he puts a huge raise on me. I fold and watch him clearly show AJ his hand before mucking. I then ask AJ what he showed and AJ tells me he saw a J. These words take place after the hand was finished. I was sitting accross from the exposer, and AJ was between us.
    I was just happy to know I made the correct fold.
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