if op opens and gets 3 bet jammed on, now the tough decision is placed back on him
This part is very overblown, the decision to put in your money was made the moment you put in the first 2.5x, you're not getting put in a tough spot, you wait and see if your trap works and then fistpump if you get it in as a 2 to 1 favorite, Or rather it's overblown for players who are competent. don't you think this is exactly what OP went for? Did he ever claim having to call when shoved on was a "hard call"?. There should be very very few "bet and see what happens" plays in poker. The only way you get put in a tough spots is if you open without a plan to call or fold because BB takes action. Then again k8s may have been a bad example because that hand should probably call a shove as well