ReefAquarium;408930 wroteI have a philosophy problem.
I grew up Long ago in a strange land called, "Ontario, Canada"
The law of the land at the time said:
Children must be given and Christian Education.
So I was "educated" about Christianity.
When I was about 5 or 6, I was "helping" my dad wash our 1960 Oldsmobile. I asked, "Dad, do you believe in Noah's ark and that stuff."
He replied, "Fairy tales!"
From then on I looked at Christian mythology with skepticism.
But I see so many people turn to religion when the can't answer big questions or they get a hurt that is too hard to bear.
There are people (called literalists) who believe that the stories of the bible are historical facts that actually happened. The other side of the coin are people (called contextualists) who believe that the stories of the bible are fictional and are just used to teach us lessons. I find it very difficult to agree with the literalists, so I'd agree with your dad that it is "fairy tales", but we can still learn something from them.
I was raised a Catholic and I took it upon myself to learn a lot about my religion especially since most people around me who considered themselves "real Catholics" didn't seem to know much about the bible or what they were supposed to believe in. Most Catholics I know pick and choose what parts of the bible they agree with and follow and what parts are useless to them, and obviously this is very problematic.
I've always been a skeptic about basically everything. As far back as I can remember, I was always asking "why?" about everything, and I was even worse when the general responses from others to my inquiries were "just because" or "it's common sense" or "it's tradition" (I won't get into it here unless someone wants me to, but the "it's tradition" thing simply just boggles my mind sometimes).
I also see many people default back to faith in god when they are faced with something they can't deal with themselves. I always wondered how they could justify that faith with themselves, but if we're being honest, these types of people don't need or even want to consider justification of their decisions and beliefs - way too much time, effort, reasoning and self reflection involved.
I can't speak of other religions, but I know that Catholics basically have a "get out of hell free" card. We're taught that as long as you confess your sins and truly repent for them, then you will be forgiven. So I can be a terrible person my whole life, but if I truly repent on my death bed it's all good. And again, if we're being honest, even the worst people, when facing their ultimate demise, could possibly find it in themselves to discover a faith in god.
However, at the same time, I tend to lean towards a Buddhist perspective when it comes to people's faith in religion. That is, if faith in a god helps you deal with the general suffering of life, then go for it. Believe in whatever flying spaghetti monster you like. However, don't force your faith down the throats of others. Let them believe what they want. After all, you don't
know you are right, you just
believe that you are.