Wetts1012;188947 wroteToo much analysis ITT.
Fact: You are going broke a vast majority of the time in the overpair vs. set scenario.
Take your lumps and move on.
Either that or fold pre so you dont lose.
Totally agree. OP, you are making it sound like this is happening to you almost every time you play a $4.40, however this probably isn't the case: it just feels that way because the times that it does happen it seems more significant mentally for you.
It's going to happen sometimes but definitely not often, there's no recipe for really soul-reading when someone hits a set, esp in donkaments when people are raising you on flops with so many different hands....